Sunday, April 27, 2008

I Have One friend...

I have one friend. Actually, I have more than one. I have many friends. Many great friends. 

I have one friend who has been my friend since elementary Girl Scouts. She is funny and talented and treats me like a sister. She is the only sister I've ever known. We've schemed together, prayed together, cooked together, laughed together, cried together, dreamed together; we enjoy being together. She has taught me that it is never too late to take up a new hobby. She has also taught me that when you start it, finish it and do the best job you possibly can. I've learned that she handles adversity better than I do. I've also learned that, through Jesus, friends can grow closer with each passing year.  

I have one friend who joined my life when I needed a spark of creativity and energy. She keeps me up on the latest, the greatest, the trendiest.  Each time I am around her, I am reminded of how real she is. She is honest, she knows herself, she knows me and she still loves me for all of my shortcomings. This girl has rhythm.  She is dramatic, funny and full of life. She makes everyone feel comfortable and as though they are her best friend. The Lord has shaped her and changed her and blessed me through her. Because of her, I have learned that the Lord has my greatest desires in mind and is able to do more than I can ever ask or imagine. She is a great teacher, daughter, wife and friend.

I have one friend who knew my husband long before I did. This girl knows how to trust. She is a testimony of God's faithfulness and provision and the way she chooses to live her life reminds me of these attributes. She knows the truths of God and they are always on her lips.  I complain to her and she lets me. Then, she gently rebukes me and sharpens me in the sweetest, most loving manner. I see her often, but much less than I would like to. She is a precious fragrance in my life. She, her husband and her children have brought so much laughter and joy to my family. Together, the Lord has changed our hearts from knowing only the facts of Jesus' love, to the ways he still chooses to work in the hearts and lives of believers.  She is gentle and patient and accepting and prayerful and encouraging.

I have one friend who is so similar to me. She thinks much like I do, she lives much like I do and she is precious to me. I admire her and respect her. I love her pure, deep love for Christ and the way he woos her heart to his each day. She is funny and strong and wise and a deep-thinker. I have sought her counsel and trusted her advice.  She is a great mother and wife and really loves the people in her life. I love her stability and intensity.  She has taught me to treasure each moment and to find simple ways to remind those around me of my love for them. She is as refreshing as the ocean breeze!

I have one friend who gives. And then she gives some more. And more and more and more. She is one of the greatest friends I have known. She is funny, witty, like-able and strong. She has not let life's set-backs impel her future. She serves the Lord and people with no reservations. She gives of her time, her money and her talents. She is true, down-to-earth, and loved by so many. Her life of ministry has had far greater reach than she will ever know. I can testify; it has reached so far down into my heart that I am more in love with Jesus because of her. I watch her, I study her and then I thank Jesus that he placed that precious heart inside of my friend. She is a treasure!

I have one friend who is family. I loved her before she was family, but being family has strengthened my love for her. She is prepared, thorough and kind-hearted. She has shown me what forgiveness means. Forgiveness is a lifestyle, a daily choice. Through her, I've grown to understand the discipline of following Christ. She is a fabulous mother and friend. She is a loving sister and daughter. She is an encourager and a perfectionist. She is sensitive to others and speaks only kind words. She is open, honest, witty and fun. I am so thankful that we are family!

I have one friend who is the life of the party. When she shows up, memories are made. She is smart and talented. She is also honest and giving. She pours her self into her tasks and always produces perfection. She is adveturous and spontaneous. She is a supporter.  She goes out of her way to give to others. Because of her, I've laughed until my side hurt on too many occasions.

I have one friend who is new. She has been a huge blessing in my life. We are similar in spirit, in heart and in life. She has encouraged me in motherhood and been available to me. She is easy to be around, loved by all and so special to me.  She is beautiful, genuine, a steward and full of energy. She pours herself into her family and because of that, her children will call her blessed. She has given me her time, her ear, her love and her resources. I am so thankful for my newest friend.

The Lord has poured loving and pure women into my life. The greatest thing about each of these friendships is that, in the end, they all reflect the love of Jesus. The creative, perfect, genuine, joyful, real, wise love of my Savior. Thank you Jesus for friends! 

I am so grateful for my one friend. 

14 comments:

The Wilsons said...

One word...WOW!!! That is an amazing post, Ash! That took serious time, effort, and thought! That is only one of the many things I love about my "One Friend" Ashley! Maybe sometime I can guess who each person is. I think I could do pretty well. :) I love you, my dearest friend Ashley!

Oh, and PS...Do you think your friend stole our name. I'm not upset, shocked really, especially if they found that name on their own. I would have truly bet that our Eisley would be the only one in the world, for real. :) Ask her where she got the name...intresting.

Tara said...

The rumor MAY be true.....we are working out the details, but tell Noah that TyTy is coming soon! :)

Tiffany said...

Beautiful! This is so thoughtful and touching. I love how the Lord loves us through our friends! Blessings!

Kelly Efurd Lawson said...

Ashley-- BEAUTIFUL post. Really.

and Miss Wilson-- I am the mommy of the newest Eisley-to-be! :) I have actually never met anyone named Eisley or with a child named Eisley-- and when Ashley told me she had a good friend with a daughter named Eisley, I too, was shocked! As for how we came up with the name... of course, there's the Star Wars thing. And the band from Tyler, TX (my hometown). So I guess that's where we first HEARD the name, but not exactly why we're naming her that. We love the name, love the way it sounds, we think it's so beautiful and feminine... and it just sort of "fits" with our family. You see, Billy is my husband. My name is Kelly. We have a dog named Riley. And Eisley just sort of fits. We started throwing around the name and it just sort of "stuck".

The other day some friends of ours told us that THEIR friends in Georgia also named their little girl Eisley about 5 years ago... I couldn't believe it!

Tara said...

Ok it's official....we're coming next Wednesday!

Lisa said...

I am the mother of one of your friends. You truly are a blessing, an inspiration, and such an authentic individual. I am honored to call you my daughter's friend. You have such insight on people. When I do get to be around you I am always reminded on why the two of you have sustained such a wonderful friendship.

Sam and Mandy said...

Beautiful words! All of them so true and honest...that did take a lot of work! I could not ask for a better friend! The Lord has blessed us with so many years and it seems that each one gets better, even if we are miles apart! Thank you for your words!

Magen said...

That was so sweet, Ashley! I realized this weekend all over again how much I really do miss you. Thank you for those sweet words (I think I know which one was me...remember our 'ocean breeze song?') and for your sweet heart and friendship. I respect you and love you so much.

King Amy said...

how fun! i can't believe we never sang that song - i have a random cd with the "we are one in the spirit we are one in the Lord" song on it - it cracks me up/ weirds me out every time it shuffles on my ipod!

Emily Suzanne said...

What a beautiful post!!! Good writing! Got your message and thought I'd quickly let you know that Thursday works so well for me!! When do you guys want to meet? I'm there!!!

Meg said...

You are one of a kind Ash. I am blessed to call you my friend. I had a such a great weekend pretending to be roommates again. Thanks for your sweet words!!

The Barnyards said...

What a sweet, sweet post.

Cassie said...

Sweet Ashley, what an amazing lady of the Good Lord you are! You are truly an inspiration to me, I am so blessed by you and each of your kind, thoughtful, and loving posts!!
Cassie

Jessica Davis said...

I love reading your words. I know how I found your blog, but I don't know WHY I found it... but I am so so glad that I did.

This made me smile.